Thursday, October 18, 2012

Wishers Clan

We all have done something that we regret for years to come or we sure "wish" we would had done things differently, I am no exception to the "wishers" clan. There is no major decision that I had taken for a while that could change anything with me or my life but I recently took one and it changed everything, trust me when I say "everything."
Yes you guessed it, I am getting married. There is no way I could say that with a grin on my face, you see I am not one of those doing things right kind of a guy, the type who plan their day in advance or who has a plan for the rest of their lives, or those who think about the future and try and shape it as per their wish. I am "not" that person. I am more of "right now" type, who does things as per his wish and loves simple things in life, like writting a blog or reading a book or just sleeping for that matter.
I do things with passion and I prefer doing that ways, I just cant do things for the heck of it. 
Now anyone would think "ok, I hope you have a point, apart from ramblling self praise." I do have a point and I do want to make a point and most importantly I want my conversation to make sense.
This is my problem here, women makes no sense to me at all.. I dont get it, I dont get it a bit. I mean what difference does it make if I got up at 9 or 10 in the morning to my fiance who is atleast 100 miles away, but they have this unknown (or unknown to men) kind of urge to be perfect, like their entire life is a walk on the ramp.

Just when all these was cooking up in my mind and I was thinking and rethinking I found this article
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2176281/Generation-refuse-grow-No-mortgage-No-marriage-No-children-No-career-plan-Like-30-somethings-Marianne-Power-admits-shes-.html

Thats when it hit me: I am the generation which is in denial.
I am the generation which is refusing to accept its responsibilities
I am the generation which has a future but wishes to stay in past
I am the generation with "I dont care" strapped all around me.


"In fact, I’m starting to think that there is a very real danger that, before long, I’ll be the last guest at the party, dancing alone, long after the music stops. And I don’t want that."

"Apparently, we’re propping up bars across the country, hoping the dim light disguises our wrinkles and that our Topshop outfits help us to blend in with the 20-somethings around us. And that’s a very sad thought. Perhaps it is time to finally grow up.
Maybe after the summer..."